The Girlfriend Experience
Movie Review
The Girlfriend Experience
by Eric D. Snider
Grade: B-
Released: May 22, 2009
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Since 2000, Steven Soderbergh has directed a dozen films, plus all 10 episodes of the HBO series "K Street." He usually handles the cinematography and editing himself, too (pseudonymously), making him essentially a one-man movie factory -- except that his projects never feel like they came off an assembly line. If anyone in Hollywood has found a way to work as quickly and efficiently as Soderbergh without sacrificing creativity, I'd like to know who it is. And then I'd like to call you a liar, because that person doesn't exist.
Soderbergh's latest, "The Girlfriend Experience," is another one of his art-house exercises (i.e., more "Bubble" than "Ocean's Eleven"), with a bit of stunt-casting thrown in for good measure. The leading role, a high-priced New York call girl, is played by Sasha Grey, a hardcore-porn actress with more than 150 titles (in just three years!) to her credit but nothing in the "legitimate" realm until now. There's a certain logic to hiring one kind of prostitute to play another kind of prostitute, of course, but those seeking titillation will find "The Girlfriend Experience" disappointing. There's hardly any nudity, and only the suggestion of sex.
The film is hardly even about sex. It's more about money. Not that there's always a difference. Grey plays Chelsea, an ambitious young woman who has carved a niche for herself as a sophisticated, non-sleazy hooker for the discerning gentleman. Strangely, it would seem, she has a regular boyfriend, too, a fitness trainer named Chris (Chris Santos). They share a lavish apartment that is almost certainly paid for primarily by Chelsea. They seem more like roommates at first -- I initially thought Chris was her gay best friend.
The film is set in October and November of last year, when the presidential election and the imploding economy were America's primary topics of conversation. Most of Chris' scenes focus on his efforts to increase his income by taking on more private clients or expanding his brand. Chelsea's well-heeled clients (who come to her for physical needs, just like Chris' do) babble about money and give her advice. Elsewhere, she meets with financial advisers and web designers who discuss her work as if it were any other enterprise, talking about how she can stand apart from her competition and "grow her business."
You wonder if prostitutes see a decline in business in a down economy. Chelsea is an impulse buy, after all, a reckless purchase (well, rental) that offers no return for your investment. Not sound economic behavior at all. On the other hand, the men who hire her aren't liable to be living on the streets any time soon, no matter how bad the economy gets. They're the type who fret because their net worth has dropped from eight digits to seven. And if she truly provides "the girlfriend experience" -- talking, listening, companionship, and sex -- then is it really so different from supporting an actual girlfriend or wife?
This is a talky film, to be sure. Ninety-nine percent talk, one percent sex. That's probably about the same ratio as it is for most men in real life. Written by David Levien and Brian Koppelman (the duo behind "Walking Tall" and "Ocean's Thirteen"), the actual plot is pretty thin, and the scenes are presented out of order, probably to keep things interesting. We eventually come to understand that, unsurprisingly, Chelsea's relationship with Chris has been strained by her profession, and that for all her posturing about keeping "love" out of the equation with her clients, it's inevitable that she'll meet one she actually likes.
I hope you are not alarmed to learn that Sasha Grey is not much of an actress. She's stilted and emotionless, a completely blank slate. I've heard some people argue that she's acting that way on purpose, that it's the character who's shallow, not Grey, but I don't buy it. She conveys almost nothing.
Luckily, she's usually not the only person in the scene, and some of what the other characters are saying is engaging, sometimes funny. To me, the film feels more "interesting" than "entertaining," the kind of thing that I'm glad I saw but wouldn't watch again. The conversations it provokes will probably be more enjoyable than the ones it depicts. Think of it as a jumping-off point for later thought.
Grade: B-
Rated R, a lot of harsh profanity, some nudity, a little sexuality
1 hr., 17 min.
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May 31, 2009 at 10:06 pm
Note to fellow readers: The following space, and only the following space, shall be reserved for arguing whether or not porn stars are "prostitutes":
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Thank you.
June 1, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Yes, they are.
June 2, 2009 at 2:01 am
As Eric specified, they can be considered "one type of prostitute". They sell their bodies in a different way, but they are still prostituting themselves. Sorry I exceeded the space.
June 2, 2009 at 10:58 am
I saw this movie at Sundance this year, it was not finished yet so we probably only saw 3/4's of it I am guessing, but I really did not like it. And unless Soderbergh really changed things between then and now I think a B- is generous. Having said that what was interesting about seeing this film though, is that at the same event we got to listen to Soderbergh talk about his process of film making and it was fascinating. I could have listened to that for hours.
June 2, 2009 at 5:17 pm
For the record, I went and found some of Sasha Grey's other work -- the naughty stuff -- and now I'm mostly convinced that she was playing stiff just for the character. You can say a lot of things about her, and she may not ever become a sublime movie star (though who knows), but stilted and emotionless she is not. Nor does she seem the same from role to role even in her adult work.
Of course it could still be that (and here I enter flagrant ***** territory, but I'm only positing a maybe) acting with her clothes on and portraying feelings other than raunchy excitement or seductive control may be a foreign language to her. But for anyone who cares, that was a very subdued, different kind of thing than her acting in her other roles.
June 15, 2009 at 7:02 pm
I have always confused about the phrase "selling her body." We all sell our bodies everyday. Whether you sit in an office or dig ditches, you are selling your body. I think the real issue here is "fornication," but of course "selling her body" has much more moralistic overtones.
Even marriage is a selling or a woman's body. She trades her sexual favors for security, companionship, and often financial security.
If I have this wrong, let me know.